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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a week now. we fight a lot over little things but it always ends up alright and we kiss and make up :) but there's reasons to these little fights.. he seems to be a bit of a flirt and i don't like it at all. he jokes around way too much and stuff and i hate it. he calls me jealous but i get mad cuz of what he says, it's not even jealousy. today we were kidding around and he said something about this girl that i'm already suspicious about what the two have been up to. he always jokes around about her and it bugs me so much. i do have a reason to get mad. and whenever he is near her when i'm there he does it too. also he is like all over my sister, he's like i love her. and he like tries to flirt with her. am i overreacting or should i do something about this?.. i've told him i hate when he does this crap but it still happens..
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reader, Tremor +, writes (13 June 2008):
If you have told him that his flirting upsets you and he continues to do it, he obviously has no respect for you. Your best bet would be to move on.
Better to end it after a week than a year, eh?
(As a side note, what you feel /is/ jealousy - jealousy is not wanting other people to have things that are yours. Such as, say, your boyfriend).
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