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anonymous
writes:I've been having these wierd dreams lately and I'm wondering if they have any meaning. I've been with my husband for 7 years, married 3 of those 7 years. Without getting into extensive detail, he has hurt me so much over the past 2 years, mentally and physically that I feel so numb inside. Surly I must love him or I wouldn't stay with him, I just don't feel the love anymore. We still maintain a decent relationship as he is trying to make things right, but until the damage has healed I can't force myself to have intimate feelings for him. Lately I've been having dreams of falling in love again and I even experience the feeling in my dreams (and it feels so good). I have had several of these dreams and only 1 of them was with my husband. The others were with guys I don't know and have never seen before in my life. I'm just wondering if this is a sign that I there is someone else out there for me or if I just miss the feeling of being in love. Any suggestions? Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, Uncle Trev  +, writes (19 January 2008):
You do not say if there are any children in this relationship so I will gather that there is not any. If this is the case I fail to see what is in the way of you leaving him if he is being this nasty and this disrespectful towards you. You would both be better off through a separation by the sound of it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2008): Dreams are just that, dreams and nothing can be deemed from them. You have been through a bad patch and therefore you mind is mixed up a bit with this and with the things that you should have happening to you in your life. Do you really want to be with him and work things out? Will things ever be good? Or are you just denying yourself the happiness that you so rightly deserve. Dont throw away something so precious as your life on someone who clearly didnt value you in the past. Have a good long look at your life and decide if you can go on like this, i wouldnt, but i am not you.
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