A
female
age
30-35,
*erenBach
writes:hi im really quite shy around guys and cant really talk to them. all my mates are girls and ive never reall had a proper bf. im inexperienced too. im 16. now i relly like this guy in the year above. he's pretty shy too. wev'e made eye contact on the bus and he looks for me wen he gets on. but thats all that ever happens. i dont know what to do next. im hopeless at talking to boys cos of past bad experiences etc. i really like him too. i cant take it too slow cos he'll b going to uni next year. help what should i do??? thanks xxx
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (18 October 2007):
Ask him questions about what he has been doing. Tell him the things you have been doing and what you like about doing them.
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (18 October 2007):
 Hello there.
Ah the old 'both shy' problem
Okay uhm *thinks of some scenarios*
Okay on the bus, if you go to the same college and get off at the same stop just walk by or something.
Next ask him what classes he's in and just GET TALKING
I know your shy sweetie but try to imagine your the most confident person in the world and nothing can go wrong.
Yes i know...your shy but pretend your not hun
thats the start anyway...after that meet in the canteen or like somewhere in college and then move on to meeting places besides college and both of your confidence levels will rise x
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