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26-29,
*ost-at-sea
writes:me and kirsten(my girlfreind)were walking down the street on saturday and she had her period there in the middle of town wearing white shortsand ran home crying and i feel so bad about it what do i do?i have a second thing to say.i was at her house the day after she was crying her eyes out and we sat on her bed and i gave her a hugand i got a random erectionand she accidently stuck her hand on my crotch and felt it.ive never felt so in baressed in my life (my cheeks were probably reder than the desert)she said she was so sorry and i said its okay but i dont know what to do or say plz hellp with both things
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reader, lost-at-sea +, writes (23 August 2011):
lost-at-sea is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks i made sure i didnt bring it up again but she brought it up and explained it was natural and didnt mean to embaress me(but it didnt) were having sex on friday because she thought she turned me on (wich she does) but thankyou for your advice
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reader, Tbosse  +, writes (23 August 2011):
 Brush it off and continue with your friendship, so long as you are happy at each other's company
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2011): To answer the first question, there is nothing you can do. It's already happened. There is no need to mention it again and if she does you can sound sympathetic but keep it brief. Don't make a big fuss of it. Many women, including myself, have had some kind of menstrual mishap at least once in our lives. As embarrassing as it is, it is not life ending.Same philosophy applies to the second question. There is nothing you can do about it since it's already happened and getting an erection is hardly (pardon the pun) unique to you. Again, no need to mention it but if it comes up (pun again sorry) then be confident and light hearted about it.Do NOT have a serious emotional discussion about it. That will only make it worse. The more relaxed and matter of fact you are, the quicker you'll get over them. Both of you.
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