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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I dated a girl for around a year and 2 months and we broke up in september. After the break up she tells me she fell in love with somone at her work, and for close to 3 months hadn't told me anything. At the begginning of the summer I started working 65+ hours a week all summerlong and was oblivious to the fact she was seeing somone else, let alone falling in love for months. What kills me is she never let on to this, all the while telling me she loved me more than ever, letting me buy her things, and lieing to my face.I really loved her, and put everything in this relationship, only to get hurt, and it sucks. It's been a few months now, but I still think about her and I miss the person I was when we were together. The shitty thing is we belong to some of the same student organizations, so I see her a couple times a week, and it really kills me that even though she did this horrible thing to me, I still have feelings for her. She claimed she never even kissed the guy, but 'emotional' cheating, falling in love with somone else, atleast in my eyes, can't be done without some form of physical connection. Regardless I view both physical and emotional aspects of cheating, to be cheating. What do I do to get over her? Any tips to getting somone out of your mind for good?
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (6 November 2008):
Its hard and as you cant really cut all contact with her, which would have been helpful then perhaps you should find someone new. Get out there and find someone new. A holiday would help to. Remind yourself that breaking up with her opens alsorts of new possibilities.
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