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writes:ok im 17, im a start senior year after this summer, but i have a friend who ran track with me, one day her sister met me, and well she's really into me. shes going to be a freshmen after this summer. so makes her 14. i like her and she knows and she likes me but im not really too sure what to do. shes a real flirt.
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reader, lj4754 +, writes (12 July 2007):
 I don't see a problem with it. My boyfriend and I started going out not long after I turned 14 and he was almost 17 at the time.We've been together around a year now. I don't view him as being older than me, and I think that as long as the person interests you, age should not be a huge factor. Go for it!
The only thing i'd advise is: make sure she's okay with everything you will be going through your Senior year. She'll be getting used to a new school while you'll be filling out applications for college. While you're graduating, she'll be getting her learner's permit. It CAN be overwhelming and a bit weird for a while. If you do decide to be with her or anyone else around her age, communicate with her as much as is needed to make sure she's comfortable in the relationship. Good luck.
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reader, sprocks +, writes (9 July 2007):
If you like her go for it because i am 14 and I like someone your age and I don't think that their is anything wrong with it
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reader, DIE-romantic.  +, writes (7 July 2007):
 Age difference when people are younger matters more than if you are mature adults. But my friend is 14 and her boyfriend is 18, they've been dating for over a year now, although they argue and he did force her into having sex, just as long as you dont, i dont see any problem with it really. Dont force her into anything too serious, take it slow.
Good luck. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionah well she dont have a brother, its more of like a sister that she has hehe...and i know if i do anything i would lose her(older sister) as a friend
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reader, sunrise +, writes (6 July 2007):
 Hi, Talk to her brother if you feel you cant talk to her. She needs to be let down gently. Dont leave it too long it will only hurt her more.
If on the other hand you like her and would like to date her, then just remember she's only 14, the 3 years between you is nothing, but you could be subject to critiscism as she's only 14 and sex is a big no no, may be wise to remain good friends and see what happens in the future. Either way be happy x
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reader, sunrise +, writes (6 July 2007):
Hi, Talk to her brother if you feel you cant talk to her. She needs to be let down gently. Dont leave it too long it will only hurt her more.
If on the other hand you like her and would like to date her, then just remember she's only 14, the 3 years between you is nothing, but you could be subject to critiscism as she's only 14, may be wise to remain good friends and see what happens. Either way be happy x
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for advice....
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2007): hey, im 14 and i have 17 year old guys who likes me....and they dont seem to care about the age difference! i mean yes, 4-5 years is a lot....but if you think she is a great girl or if she seems mature enough....give her a chance...you might find out that she is really greatgood luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2007): Hi love,
Im not sure if she is abit young, my son is 18 and his girl is 16.. Im not saying age matters or id be a hypocrite.. And i wouldnt judge anyone. Can you not be a friend to this girl and maybe wait for awhile as you say she is very flirty so thats a toughy, At end of the day i can advise you but hun its your decition... If you can be friends then as time went on you would get to no each other better and only time will tell love TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXX
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