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writes:I have been asking my boyfriend what sex feels like for him and he can't even put it into words because he said it feels so good. I get more of an emotional feeling from it than physical. For the guys , could you tell me what he's feeling? I'm just really interested. Thanks. :) Reply to this Question
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reader, Odds +, writes (16 August 2011):
 Changes from time to time. There's long, slow lovemaking, which is a profoundly emotional experience, and then there's quickies in the laundry room, which are a purely physical one. Most sex falls somewhere in the middle.
What does stand out is the feeling of acceptance. To know someone else cares about you enough (or at least finds you attractive enough) to be so close to you is too gratifying to adequately explain. For a guy, it's hard to be as close to someone as when you're having sex with her. And afterward, I feel like a champion - whether it's the first time or the hundredth with her.
I don't know of any words to describe the physical component, if "orgasmic" isn't enough. Suffice to say there's a reason it's one of a man's basic needs.
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