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writes: After about a month of dating see each other on every weekend for three weeks, (We live close - about 20 mins - to each other. We email, talk on the phone from time to time. She is a quiet person) then she invites me over to her place on Monday night of week 4. We have been having sex since the 2nd date. We spend the fouth weekend from Friday night to Sunday morning together. That Sunday morning as I'm getting into my car in her driveway, she says to me in a soft sensual voice "if you miss me, call me later tonight." Does that mean she wants to get closer to me and take the next step? Could she be playing games and this is only a fling? Or is she just saying that only to show affection? Or does she love me? We are both single at age 43 with no kids. At that point where do you think she is?thanks,b Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk this happened a while ago. I just found this site again. Let me clarify something here. There was no "whispered message". Her voice was sensusous, she was cute but not that good in bed. A conservative and boring person - ( an accountant).
There was just sex - no HOT sex there. At 43 yrs old she was a dating neophite. She tried to get close to me the next morning after our first time. I said to her "hey wait a minute, we are only just dating here.
But there IS no specific time frame for love. Yes she liked me and I liked her. I could not commit. I saw that message as - lets get a little closer here.
I did not call her until four days later. Then she got nasty with me. What does that tell you.
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (26 July 2005):
 Writing as a woman aged 43 with no kids (yup, really), I'd say you missed a chance for some phone sex.
My impression of her whisperings was that she was sorry that you were leaving after a passionate weekend and was suggesting you give her a ring later in the night to... ah, ahem - discuss what you two might do at your next meeting. ;-)
And I agree with Irish49, you're too early in this relationship to be considering whether this is a signal of love, or worrying about "next steps" anywhere.
This woman sounds like she's very much enjoying your company, and for now, maybe that's all you need to know.
Have fun!
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reader, becky05 +, writes (26 July 2005):
It sounds to me that she wants to see more of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2005): Well...to say such a suggestive "whisper"-it's my opinion she is definitely interested and she really enjoys being with you. Does she love you? Not necessarily.. because your relationship is still in it's infancy and she much too mature to fall head over heels-simply because she slept with you and you both had great, hot, torrid sex. You are dealing with a sexy, sensuous, wonderfully mature, open woman here-not a immature, young, lovestruck girl. She sounds incredibly sensuous and a lot of fun to be around. Just kick back, relax and enjoy the ride, guy! If love is meant to be..it will come in time...it's way too early, yet. At your ages, life is too short to take everything someone says-so seriously. Take it slow...and most of all, love life and be happy.
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reader, dr_love +, writes (26 July 2005):
Sounds like she wants you to "wear the pants" in this relationship. She meant exactly what she said. She wants to know when you are thinking about her. Call the girl!
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