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writes:dear cupid,on friday i saw a guy who i have had a cush on for some time now. i saw him staring at me ( like a gaze but he had a serious look on his face)it was also from a distance . i am puzzeld by his look i when i caught him doing it he just carried on so i smiled. he ignored my smile and carried on looking at me so spoke to my freind as i stared to find it funny.what could this "gaze" mean ?is it good or bad? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009): Well, what ever, it doesn't mean if a guy stares at another guy accross the room that he is gay. He could have been lost in thought and staring at the wall.
Who knows, you will just have to wait and see if he ever speaks to you, that would be a clear sign, don't you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe was deffinantly looking at me. as i was the only girl around and i dont think he would look at a male in that way ( i know his not gay) tbh my smile was more of a giggle to my freind. and it was probs about 7 metres away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009): I think if he was staring and you smiled at him and he did not respond and kept staring at you, he wasn't actually looking at you....from a distance it would be hard to tell what or who he wss looking at.
Now if you catch him staring at you and you notice he quickly looks away, then yes he was looking at you and was embarassed you caught him because he finds you attractive.
If you want him to notice you, then catch hisi gave and flash him a smile and then see what happens....maybe when you pass him in the hall.
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reader, scully0205 +, writes (24 March 2009):
 I personally think he wasnt looking at you, but if you have had a crush on him for a while mabye telling him how you feel is the way forward. I told my 1st boyfriend how I felt an we where together for 5 years so sometimes saying how you feel is the best answer. Hope that helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009): if it was from a distance and you smiled at him and he didn't even respond, he probably wasn't even looking at you. Maybe you or he need glasses. I wouldn't think it meant anything.
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