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writes:what do you do when your married and you're in love with your husbands friend? I have been sleeping with his friend for almost a year and now he has a girlfriend and doesn't want to see me anymore and I can't stop thinking about him all day everyday
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008): Tell your husband that you cheated, you are being totally unfair married to him but being in love with someone else. Shame on you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2008): He has done the right thing, you might not think it right now, because you are hurting, but he has really done you a big favour. He is with someone and you are married, it is so lucky that the other partners didnt find out and this all didnt blow up in your faces. Now, put it all behind you and put 100% into your marriage. Look to the future now, and dont go moping around, because it had to happen and be glad that you are out of it in one piece and not in pieces. you will be hurting for some time, but it will be a healing hurt that you will survive.
take care and look after yourself and your husband from now on.
xx
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (20 January 2008):
 You really dont know how lucky you are, that your hubby didnt find out. What a mess this would have caused.
Cant you get back on track with the one your married to. And if you are still pining for this other guy after a few weeks. I recon you should leave your husband, it's not fair on him is it?
You have been behind his back for a year, dont you think he deserves more?
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reader, kenny +, writes (20 January 2008):
 I think you should call this a blessing, and a sign for you to get back on track and focus back on your marriage. Things could have ultimately got pretty messy for everyone, but it diden't, you were lucky. Let him go now, put it down to experience and get on with your life.
Good luck x
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (20 January 2008):
 If you love him ,let him go. Refocus back on your marriage and see him from another woman's perspective.
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