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What can or should I do? Don't want to leave my partner but cant stop thinking about the "kiss"

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Question - (9 October 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 October 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am in a relationship and we have children.

It's not been the best of relationships but we are working through it.

But only the other night one of my friends (who is also friends with my partner) was on leave from the army and was out with us. I ended up kissing him (a lot) and i really liked it!

What do i do?

I know my friend likes me but don't know how much and i am 7 years older than him.

I dont want to leave my partner but cant stop thinking about the "kiss" it was amazing!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2012):

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Thanks for reading and ur advice i no its not fair on my partner will try and work it out. Its just iv had crap off him for years txtin old gf's gambling stayin out all nite, i no he has been tryin lately but i think im just waitin for him to do somethin else wrong. We have 4 kids which is why i have stayed for so long i no u shouldnt stay with some1 just for the kids sake but its hard. Just gonna treat it as a stolen kiss but the guy hasnt stopped txtin me since he went bk in the army i am his friend and have known him for a long time hes out in 7 weeks :-\

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2012):

It was just a kiss.. Okey it was exciting most stolen secret kisses are.. But you don't know what living with this guy would be like, even if you both got that far .

Best keeping it as a golden moment for now, work through your issue with your husband and see if you can salvage some of the fun and exciting ..

If you can't leave your husband and say a year later start a relationship with your friend if that what you want.. However you cannot have your cake and eat it too. Not fair on your hubby.

If a guy posted what you did, he'd get roasted..

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