A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Alright well my question may sound very stupid however please bare with meso ive been in a relationship for one year and two months and im happy, couldnt ask for more , it is a long distance relationship so its a little hard. Now me and my ex dated for eight months , he was my first boyfriend etc and we broke up because he liked another girl. ( A few months after that was when i began to date my current boyfriend) So for the past few months my ex ( we are friends now) has been talking to me and he asked me out yesterday, i obviously said no however he does live near me and theres always a part of me that will have something for me as he is my first boyfriend.( The girl he cheated on me with they dated for about 2 weeks and broke up and he hasnt had a girl since ) Me and my boyfriend have been talking less recently , much less because hes been busy. I dont know what to do he's being really nice to me and im scared im gonna end up liking him , i love my boyfriend and i dont want to hurt him in any way. Even if i was to break up with my boyfriend ( Which i hope i wont , even my family prefer him to my ex) i wouldnt date my ex. He was my first heart break and i the only reason i smiled after that was my current boyfriend, i know it sounds stupid and i know i shouldnt like him but what can i do to stop this Thank you for everyone who answers
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (20 June 2012):
 A simple thing to do is to block your ex. This very gesture shows you are over him and you don't care what he thinks about you anymore. If your mind drifts off to the wonderful times you had with your ex, think of all the bad things he did to you, and his negative qualities. If you are happy in your LDR boyfriend it shouldn't be difficult for you to just let him know you need to talk to him, even if it's just 10 minutes.
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