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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My situation is complicated. I went on a date with a guy who wanted sex..it was more a hook up then a date. But he couldn't get it up b/c he wasn't attracted to me and liked a girl he had dated that is our mutual friend. We made a plan to meet the girl at dinner so he could talk to her about that; long story short, I had dinner with her and we kissed and ended up in an open relationship and broke then news that it was over for him.We decided in a summer fling. We don't want anything serious, but I can see myself developing feelings for her and I am nervous I'll get too attached. But being with her is like a dream, and I'd rather have a fling then nothing at all. What can I do to keep myself with her without getting into something serious? And what is appropriate for something like this as far as dates, titles, and negotiating family and their questions? Reply to this Question
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (2 June 2012):
 If you already thunk you have feelings and descrive being with her as a dream, i am sorry to say this but you will end up being hurt one way or another.
If you stop things now before it goes to far it will hurt that you never got more time with her and the like.
If you let it carry on and you get even stronger feelings it will hurt even more when she reminds you that this isnt serious, or ends it.
You need to talk to her, ask her if she is sure this is all she wants nothing more serious, if she is you really need to think about if you can handle getting close to her for it all to just end, or seeing her with another person, thats up to you.
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