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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:All of the past couple of months, the guy I like and I have been getting closer. I was positive he liked me back, and he was showing good signals, like:He started sitting next to me in class daily.He would text me for long periods of time.I would catch him staring at me.He always faced his torso and feet at me when we were in the same room (body language, right?)Our relationship had been getting better and better, to the point where I thought he would ask me out soon, until a few days ago. See, his close friends asked me who I liked and then guess that I liked him, and I confessed. They were really excited and agreed to find out for me if he reciprocated my feelings, which I was already sure he did. Within half an hour of them finding out that I liked him, they told him and reported back to me that he liked me back. It seemed like a good thing, but now he's getting more distant again. He hasn't sat next to me in class for two days now, and he's not as interested when talking to me. I still find him looking at me, but he's much more careful about not sending such blatant signals now, or maybe they're just not there. It's almost like now that he knows he got me, he doesn't have to work anymore, or maybe he was unknowingly only interested in the chase and has lost interest. The third option is that he's feeling too pressured into asking me out now that all his friends know, and he's embarrassed. Which option do you think it is and what can I do to help the relationship get back on the right track?
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