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*ANNY23
writes:my name is fanny, my question is: i never feel a orgasm before, just if i do it myself.what i can do? i really want to know how that feels?i take birth control pills do you think this is why i cant feel one? i love my husband and i tell him everything i turn off the lights so he dont see me crying, because i cant have one. what i can do?help me please.thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2008): you can have an orgasm, you need to be relax and don't think about it, the more you think about it the less chance you will feel one. you start out with four play get things heat up then you do all the other sexual things and by the end of the session trust me you will feel it. if that don't work watch some really good sex tape i'm not joking don't watch the hardcore crazy ones a nice two couple ones and if that don't work try self pleassure get a good vibrator and use it don't be embrassed about buying one and using one. well good luck hope you take my addvise and don't feel bad if it doesn't happen the first time it takes time.
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reader, FANNY23 +, writes (22 September 2008):
FANNY23 is verified as being by the original poster of the question THANK YOU GUYS I FINALLY FEEL ONE IT WAS REALLY GOOD,THANKS FOR EVERYTHING.
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reader, jessiemarie  +, writes (2 September 2008):
Yeah the clitoris is one damn powerful thing!
Try playing with it during sex or try different things in your own time...
Have you ever tried thinking of another man during sex?
If not try that..
You may be suprised to discover it might not be you at all!!
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (2 September 2008):
 You are not alone. According to many surveys and studies, a majority of the women worldwide are less than fully satisfied with the typical sexual lifestyle provided by their mates. The problem originates in part from ignorance on the part of most men regarding female sexuality, their satisfaction of which requires much more time and attention than most men provide or can imagine. In short, as a married woman, your eventual sexual satisfaction depends upon the education of your husband regarding female pleasure. There is a great deal of archived information on this Web site and elsewhere on the Internet regarding pleasing a woman. It is likely that some degree of oral stimulation for you by your mate would help alleviate the situation if not currently practiced in your lifestyle. A substantial amount of foreplay would also probably help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2008): No, it's nothing to do with the birth control pills. How can you say you tell your husband everything, yet you are in this frustrating situation? Does he not listen? Sounds like he's very selfish.
You need to tell him your problem and he needs to take more time and care to ensure your satisfaction. If he's just having sex with you for his own ends, then he needs re-educating into the needs of a woman - there are plenty of sites that cater for making one a better lover. Make sure he sees them.
Good luck.
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