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writes: I'm 19 and I just simply put can't get over my sexual urges and I end up masturbating. Honestly for me this is just extremely frustrating even though my head and rationality says something else my body tell me another.I've had strong sexual urges when I was younger too but this is simply put getting ridiculous.I am a virgin, but I don't really mind coming from a traditional asian family, I don't mind the fact that I'm going to get a traditional arranged marriage either.But what I do mind is that I 'abuse' myself so much before I meet my wife - and I hate myself for it!Is this just a particularly strong phase I'm going through, are my urges ever going to stabilise? What can I do to control myself? Reply to this Question
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reader, Brae123  +, writes (29 October 2008):
I am 15 and I masturbate at least once a day if not more. It is pefectly normal whilst in your teens to have strong sexual urges. This is because of the increased testostirone levels caused by puberty. Don't worry once your body is fully developed the hormone levels will drop and the urges will become less frequent.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008): What the heck!The entire world masturbates.Why should you control yourself?Are you doing it with ten different girls?Are you two timing anyone?Its just your guilt as you are taught from an early age to suppress your sexual feelings.Masturbation is not wrong.It effectively relieves stress.Its much better than sleeping with someone and end up getting HIV/STDs.Do not control yourself.Everyone goes through it.you are pure enough for your wife.Just remember when you get married when ever you feel the urge,make love to your wife is she allows you to.
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