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36-40,
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writes:I was sexually abused a lot as a child and I also felt abanded emotionally from my family when I was little, it seems every time I'm in a relationship I self sabatoge myself or am insecure dependent etc. What can I do how to I explain to my boyfriend I need extra love I need help
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): First and foremost i want to congratulate you on overcoming the obstacles that have been thrown at you. When i was young i went through a similar situation, i was raped and molested for years by my parents close friend. It is really hard to have a relationship with all the memories. So i want to say that you are a very strong person and never let anything make you think that you deserved what happened to you. On to your question..... If he knows of the abuse, just tell him what is on your mind. He will only know what you need if you tell him and let him know what will make you happy. Guys are more sensitive than you think and he will likely really understand and come through for you. My boyfriend did once i really broke down and told him how i felt, he was really wonderful and helped me become healthy and confident. It is possible to overcome what you must feel is impossible. I am always here if you need help.Good Luck and take care
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