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*aomie arissol
writes: im seeking for help don't know what to do.i have a boyfriend who really love me and i also love him but my mum don't want to accept.i don't know what to do,he invite me on the beach with him but i don't know how i will tell my mum about it because i know she might not accept.im 20years old and i don't think there is anything wrong if i have a boyfriend at that age. we've been inlove for 2years now.i know she don't want me to get hurt but i think its time for her to accept.what can i do for her to accept? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, naomie arissol +, writes (28 March 2009):
naomie arissol is verified as being by the original poster of the questionis there anyone else have another advice for my question
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reader, naomie arissol +, writes (27 March 2009):
naomie arissol is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your advise jessica,but the problem is that my mum don't like us to bring our boyfriend or girlfriend at home.i will try to asks her
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (27 March 2009):
It sounds like she is just being a protective mama.
It might help if he comes over to your house more often so she can "sniff" him out. When she keeps getting shown time and time again that she has no reason to dislike him, she will begin to accept him.
Just encourage him to come around more, despite her bad mood, so she can see how well he treats you and how much you adore him. If you hide him from her, then she is going to assume something is wrong with him.
Also, you can flat out ask her why she doesn't like him, and ask her to give you all the reasons she has. The more baseless they are, the more proof you have that she is just being protective.
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reader, naomie arissol +, writes (27 March 2009):
naomie arissol is verified as being by the original poster of the questiondon't know but that is not a bad guy he has a good job,got a good salary,not an alcholic,very polite.i don't whats wrong my mum that he don't like my boyfriend.i've been inlove with 2 guy before but she dont accept any of them
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