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writes:I was with my ex boyfriend for 3 months and to to say the least he was difficult and seemed to think he was some kind of father figure to me as my parents are dead and he was 14 years older than meNow I have met a guy on America who I have planned to go over there for Christmas and today my sister says that my ex boyfriend is planning to turn up at the airport to stop me going and will cause a scene to stop me doing this and the reason he is my ex boyfriend is because he kept on telling me what to say dress and who to talk to and gave me lists of what would be happening and even on this this he put down when we were even going to have sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2015): I would let it out that you are going on a different day than you are. That way he is welcome to turn up to the airport and get himself arrested for making a scene... whilst you are on your way long before that.
This is what restraining orders were designed for.
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reader, Ciar +, writes (17 December 2015):
 Agreed.And if you're posting stuff about this upcoming trip (or anything else for that matter) on Facebook and you and your ex have mutual friends, then stop it. The whole world does not need to know your plans.If he does have the right flight, the right day, the right time etc, shows up and does make a scene, be cool and calm. Security will be called in no time and he will look like a fool. The more unperturbed you appear to be the more people will think HE's the lunatic.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (17 December 2015):
 How will your ex know what plane you are on? What day you leave? Seriously? Why are you even still talking to this dude and why is your sister talking to him?
IGNORE, BLOCK, DELETE the bugger and get on with your life and maybe tell your sister to do the same.
And keep that list you might need it for a Order of protection, the man is a sick controlling abusive wacko.
IF he does show up IGNORE him - Security will take care of him.
If he shows up at your house - CALL the police - DO NOT let him in!!
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