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What are the signs that a person is not over his ex, though he initiated the break-up? I'm scared to ask him.

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Question - (9 September 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 9 September 2007)
A female United Arab Emirates age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I recently broke up with my bf , and well yesterday i saw him, and he ws acting really awkward and wasn't his usual self, and kinda looked at me... he was the one who initiated the breakup... ppl said he isn't over me... are these the signs tht shows he aint over me? i wanna talk to him about this but im scared.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2007):

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yeah after that day...he doesn't talk to me all the time ...maybe i'm just thinking things but i got a feeling he's over me.... and that he met someone because his nicknames online keeps saying i miss u or smth poetic.....

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A female reader, Jualsy Spain +, writes (9 September 2007):

Jualsy agony auntHe was probably embarrassed and yes, felt awkward. If he wanted you back in his life nothing would stop him from making contact.

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A female reader, monkeybuzz +, writes (9 September 2007):

hello there

hard to know for sure if he is over you unless you actually have a chat, otherwise u will be speculating.

my ex was the one who broke up with me, and I had to see him the next day,we didn't speak much, I found out later from him that the awkardness was due to him trying to give me some space, and time to myself etc. but he wanted to just be friends, he had no intention of getting back together with me.

you probably need to speak to him, and ask, how his feeling and discuss how you are truely feeling about the breakup. Seems like maybe you have inresolved feelings for him? and scared...perhaps of finding out that maybe he really has no intention of getting back together?..

hope it will sort itself out

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A female reader, amber nuttall United Kingdom +, writes (9 September 2007):

Yes, it seems he still has feelings for you. Talk to him, but he obviously had other reasons for wanting the break up other than not liking you anymore. You will never know how he feels, and wether you should be back together or not, until you talk to him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2007):

i think that he does have feelings for you and isnt over you,all i can say if you really need this talk with him and if you really want it,you should try and get over your scardness and talk to him calmly,and ask him all what you want to know.i know its hard to get over your fear,but thats what you have to do,believe me only the first step is always hard.hope it helps and you will get whatever you need!:)

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