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What are the secrets to a health and happy relationship? I am besotted with my other half and I want this to continue.

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Question - (23 December 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 December 2013)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi all,

I am absolutely besotted with my other half. I believe we make a great team. I would like some advice from those that are in healthy and happy longterm relationships.

What advice can you give me so that I do my best to help us grow old together? Things like effective conflict resolution, how to keep the intimacy, the laughter etc. Some will say if It ain't broken don't fix it... But I'm a prevention rather than cure kinda girl. Why wait until there's a problem if I can nourish a healthy relationship now?

I know that I cannot control him or circumstances etc. But he is a beautiful person and I would like to know that whatever happens I gave this love my all.

Ps. We have been together for 4 years now

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2013):

Thank you Brown wolf. I wish you a fulfilling 2014!

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (24 December 2013):

BrownWolf agony auntLove is patient and kind; it is not jealous or conceited or proud; love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable; love does not keep a record of wrongs; love is not happy with evil, but is happy with the truth. Love never gives up; and its faith, hope, and patience never fail.

Best advice ever...Jealousy and hurt pride have destroyed many relationships. Most of all...Talk...do not argue. Foolish people believe that arguing makes for a great relationship. Arguing comes from anger, so how is that good?? When you feel things getting heated, stop, take a break, calm down, and then TALK things over. Then Snuggle...it solves everything :)

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