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writes:One of my good friend's gf keeps trying to hang out with me. I would but I don't really feel comfortable being alone with the gf. I'm not sexually attracted to her whatsoever, but I just don't want my friend to be excluded. I have done something in the past that definitely has something to do with my concerns. It involved my bros ex (now baby mother and gf). We always hung out. Purely platonic until she flipped the script on me. Now I did the ultimate betrayal to my brother and I lost a friend. (she was a friend by default but still a friend). I don't believe that will happen with my friend and her gf, but I don't want to take any chances of history repeating itself. What would you do? Reply to this Question
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reader, GeminChanel +, writes (4 September 2011):
GeminChanel is verified as being by the original poster of the question yea thats definitely reasonable. Thank you! : )
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (4 September 2011):
 Then tell your friend that you don't look at her in that way. If she doesn't believe you, then she doesn't. But let her know that you have your reasons and that it's best for yourself.
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reader, GeminChanel +, writes (4 September 2011):
GeminChanel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthey don't know my reasoning behind it and i don't want my friend to think that i look at her gf in that way, bc i don't.
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (4 September 2011):
Tell your friend's gf that you prefer if you two don't hang out alone together, due to past experiences. If she can't understand it or accept it, then just keep going on with your life. You are under no obligation to be friends or hang out with someone you don't want to. And tell your friend the same thing if she asks why.
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