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36-40,
anonymous
writes: HiI have just broken up with my partner. we didnt break up because the we dont love each other anymore or because the relationship was going bad. he is moving to america and he is not sure if he wants me to go with him. its so hard, in the past i have been able to move on because there was a breakdown in the relationship. but we were looking at flats together to move into somewhere new and meeting his family then the opportunity to move to america came and i am not included in the picture.i am really hurting and spend most my days in bed, its difficult not waking up to him and coming home to no one.
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (3 August 2008):
Im so sorry to hear that your relationship with your partner did not work out. Its never easy when a relationship fails, espessially when you dide't want it to. I know it does not feel like it at this moment but things will get better, time really is the healer of all pain. Ok so this relationship did not work out, so pick your self up, dust yourself down and move on. Treat this relationship as a chapter in your life, and now its water under the bridge. Of course we have all got memories of past relationships, some good some bad, and thats just what they are now, memories in the back of your head. Get back out there, meet up with friends, go for a walk, go to the gym, an evening class. Once you start getting out there again you will ultimately start to feel alot better in yourself, and who know's you may even meet someone else.
Wishing you all the best x
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