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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey guys,I'm in need of some advice.I'm 15 and i recently started working. I fell HARD for this guy i work with and some of my friends there say he likes me back. But i'm still not convinced he likes me.What are some ways that i can see if he likes me back? I'm not really confident and i'm shy, so i cant just walk up to him and ask him! And also.. what are some ways that i can 'subtly' flirt with him?? I want him to get the picture that i like him but without going overboard! I dont want it to seem like i'm desperate. OHH! and by the way, dating co-workers is ALLOWED were i work, so it's all good! Thanks to all of you guys who took the time to read this and help me out!!I appreciate it.
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reader, LilzDon'tKnow +, writes (24 June 2008):
 Ah, the shy flirting :)
Okidays, I'm assuming its an office (if not oppsies)
Talk to him, not about that just about interests and see if he has the same interests. For example;
You: Hi
Guy: Hey, hows it going?
You: Pretty good, I was planning to go to a party but it got cancelled, so now my saturday is empty. And yourself?
Guy: Saturday is empty as well
You: Well, we could go to (Insert name of place that you like to go here)
Thats really all there is, just start hanging out with him and he'll get the hint, guys maybe slightly stupid but they aren't completely blind they gets hints pretty quikly
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): These ar tell-tale signs likes you:
If he wants to talk to you all the time,
If you turn around and you catch him looking at you,
If he starts acting nicer when you're around him,
If he says "yes" to all the things you ask him to do,
If he treats you differently than others,
If he tries to sit next to you at work, in class, at lunch, or play on a team with you during Gym/Recess
If he looks at you a lot every time you smile or laugh,
If he acts immaturely around you, like poking, teasing or playful flirting,
If he seems to always want to hang out with you,
If he gets closer with a body part, or if he tries to touch you (e.g. when you touch him he might touch you back),
If you catch him peeking at you and he smiles,
If he tries to make you laugh,
If he tries to copy you,
If he walks up to you out of the blue and hugs you,
If he tries to keep you in view for as long as possible or tends to look around and stop when he finds you,
If he subtly looks at you but makes it look like he is looking at the girl next to him,
If he constantly calls you and uses an excuse -such as What was the homework?
If he goes out of his way to talk to you (e.g. if he goes to the other side of your school to talk to you because he knows you have a class there),
If you block him on instant messenger and stop talking to him, and he finds a way to talk to you (note: this may be considered a form of stalking)
If you see him staring at something by turning his head 90 degrees and when you look at him he smiles and turns away, when this happens, check his pupils, he might have actually been staring at you
If he invites you to his birthday party or any kind of party,
If you flirt with a friend of his when he can see, and he looks jealous or automatically flirts back, (but don't flirt with them just to find out if he likes you)
If he talks to you and wants to know how you're doing,
If he is nicer or tries to talk to your friends,
If he asks about you to your friends when you're not around,
If he asks you to dance with him at the dance.
If he walks past you and tries to look cool so you can glance at him
If a guy tries to show you things he got that are somewhat expensive (e.g. a cellphone) or he tries to impress you,
If you notice when he gets out of class and starts to walk a little slower than usual, then he's trying to give you the opportunity to talk to him!
If he always talks to you there's a great chance that he likes you.
If he feels so awful letting you down that he lies.
If he would do anything to spend more time talking to you (e.g. if he talks to/texts you until 2:30 in the morning).
If you realize that he ignores you when your looking but when you look out of the corner of your eye, he turns back around to look back at you,
If he's talking to his friends and nodding like he's paying attention but you realize he's not, he's actually been staring at you the whole time!
If he walks down the hallway (at school) and he "accidentally" bumps into you/touches you/moves your chair/pulls your hair etc.
If he ignores you almost completely. For example, when you call his name he does nothing, but when your friend doess he pays attention. This is because he might be embarrassed or not sure how to approach you. Be careful, though, he might ignore because he just flat-out doesn't like you!
Give him darting glances and when you speak to him slowly drag your eyes down his face. Don't pretend to be something you're not guys don't like frauds.
Good Luck, missy...
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