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writes:What are my chances of meeting someone after university, and not in work?I'm about to graduate this year from uni with a masters in engineering. Looking back, despite loads of good memories, I never had a proper girlfriend and now I'm starting to worry that I'll never get the chance to meet single women particularly since I'm in a male dominated environment.I know how to talk to women through societies and clubs but I'm petrified to ask women out in places like gym, supermarket, bus stop etc which is where I'm most likely to meet single women. But even those places seem daunting so I was wondering what my chances are of meeting single women (particularly as I'm always interested in broadening my horizons and getting off my backside) and not having to drop myself to online dating.
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reader, BettyBoup +, writes (24 May 2010):
 Hey.Try not to worry about it. There will be plenty of opportunities to meet women in the future. You can meet someone special anywhere, at anytime. But it's best to just let it happen, rather than trying to force it. If you are desperatly, consciously trying to find a partner, it may never happen because, this can make someone appear needy. Just try to concentrate on your life, on having a good time, getting to know people and becoming the best person you can be. That way when someone special comes along, you'll be a very happy, welcoming person. If you are happy in yourself, by yourself, this will shine through and women will want to be with you. If you are thinking that you can't be happy till you have a woman in your life, this will shine through and women will be turned off. Do you see what I mean?Think of a partner in your life being like icing on a cake. Icing makes the cake wonderful, but cake can still be wonderful on its own. Concentrate on enjoying the cake, that way if icing comes along it will make the cake taste even better. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2010): Engineering is where its at. You will find someone. Keep a positive attitude about and try getting involved in an organization. ie: volunteering,church group or something that interest you. Keep an open mind and don't sweat it. I was in the same situation as you up until about a month ago. A lot can change. Good Luck!!
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