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writes:I'm 15 I had a boyfriend before, and many "things" with guys but it seems that after a period of time they stop liking me for no reasons, please don't give me answers like "your 14 your too young, and you'll find someone your only young." maybe its other girls? Maybe its just me? :( they say its not me its them but that's a bullshit answer. What am I doing wrong? Will I ever find a guy who really truely cares about me?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (31 October 2011):
 yeah you will find a guy that truly cares about you... when you are old enough to date adults.... right now you are only old enough to date boys...
the best thing to do..
live your life FOR YOU not for anyone else
make friends
get some good hobbies... (I can attest to the fact that if you like smart nerdy boys that board gaming is a good place to meet boys/men as it's a predominantly male populated hobby)
learn to like yourself and value yourself
STOP LOOKING for a boyfriend. The best ones fall in your lap when you are not looking for them.
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reader, tealeaves  +, writes (31 October 2011):
 I know you don't want to hear it but it is the truth; you're 15 and you have got your entire life ahead of you, there is no rush for a relationship now. As for the boys who stop liking you for no reason, I'm afraid that's just what teenage boys are like; there is nothing wrong with you, I'm sure. You have done nothing wrong, don't ever doubt that. You'll find that as you grow older, boys will mature but you must remember that their teenage years are the peak of their immaturity and indecisiveness. There is plenty of time for you to have a loving relationship, you don't need one now. I assure you that you will find someone; you may not feel it right now, but it will happen. Don't search for love, let it find you.
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