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writes: I was in a strange relationship with a guy, I had broke it off a few months ago, he came back and wanted to stay friends, so I tried it, all we ended up doing was going back and fourth makeing eachother jelouse, calling eachother on our faults, I still dont understand why he wanted to stay friends after the break up. I finally pissed him off enough he told me goodbye. Why did he want to stay friends? Was it to punish me? or was he really crazy and narsistic? Eve42
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reader, Eve42 +, writes (2 October 2006):
Eve42 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for your thought, I know that is true, he was the one who always who denied ever being attached, totally drove me nuts, he would never admidt, maybe it was because he thought it couldnt work, I am a lot older then he, I did say I was sorry many times, one thing he would never say right down to the end. he constanly blamed me for every thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2006): you know, everything you just mentioned in your post, stems from the fact that you guys still want to be with each other! Fact is, noone wants to back down to say the first sorry or whatnot, as pride and ego is in the way, thus the dancing back and forth. I was in a similar situation about a year ago, but now Ive come to realise I really dont want to be with her anymore, like for real! Thing is, you have to ask yourself the ultimate question, whether to give it another go or walk away. If you choose to get back, one of you will need to do the initiating and back down. If you choose the latter, then dont look back, ever!
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reader, Eve42 +, writes (2 October 2006):
Eve42 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Tora, that's probably true, the thing is,and what makes this so confuseing he always denied ever being attached to me, calling it a game, he took up so much of my time, constantly calling, contacting me in one way or the other, saying one thing then denieing he ever said it. I will move on from this, and have learned a lesson, sorry to say that it makes it hard to trust again.
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reader, Toria +, writes (2 October 2006):
 Maybe because you had a relationship together he didn't want to lose you out of his life completely so wanted to give it a go at being friends, this then didn't work out so now he has realised it's better you two don't as it wasn't doing either of you any good.
You need to start getting on with your life and move on from this relationship, there are some relationship that can form friendship after but this isn't always the case.
Good luck :o)
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