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writes: well i need help, there this really fit guy i was seeing, things were going soo well until i was lookin after my 10 year old cousin and she kept prank calling him and i kept apologising. He then went really quiet and talking less and less then we stopped talking. A few days ago my mates told him to call me and we were texting, i asked him why he hasnt called me4 2 months he sed coz he was busy but he sed its coz of that. How can i tell him that i wanna be back wiv him without sounding eager and desperate...? please help hes soo fit..xxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2006): No, you don't want to come across as eager and desperate!
For heaven's sake, call him - or send an email or text - and invite him out to lunch! See how he responds. If he is still interested, he will say yes. the way to go about it is to say something like "Would you like to go out to lunch with me this week?" Keep it simple. Reason for saying "this week" is to give him the chance to tell you which day would be good for him (or maybe a day NEXT week would be if he's really been busy). OR ask him to meet you to have coffee - doesn't HAVE to be lunch.
If he either flat-out declines, or seems hesistant about naming a day ("No, not Thursday, not Monday" etc. and does not suggest a day he COULD see you) then you will know.
Good luck!
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reader, Toria +, writes (1 October 2006):
 If you want to be with him the only way to know for sure if there is a chance of this happening is to talk to him and suss out what he is thinking and feeling regarding the two of you.
Good luck :o)
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