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We've split b/c the relationship just didn't feel right, but now I'm confused about my feelings for her!

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Question - (18 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 September 2007)
A male United States age 36-40, *ustintime1207 writes:

I broke up with my girlfriend because something just wasn't feeling right but every since then i still think about her all the time. She wants to be together and I do to but there are times that I feel I just want to be single and free and have some fun but then again I want to be with her and don't want her with any one else. I know thats not fair but I want to be with her but I don't. How come when we were together I always felt like this I just want a happy relationship but I cant if I get this feeling.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007):

Try to remember all the reasons why you split up in the first place before you decide whether or not you want her back. You might save yourself some time and hearthache that way.

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A male reader, simon008 Norway +, writes (18 September 2007):

i was at your age, i was really deeply in love.. then we moved, surroundings changed. i lost some feeling for her, but i still loved her. just couldnt be together without this feeling. years later, i understood that love was not actually just that feeling. it's also what you want to happen, what you believe, what you dream of. I always loved her really. but I lost her. I'm not saying what is right for you. just remember, don't walk out on her too easy. we all want to be free, but what we really want is to be in love.

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