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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I have a crush on this girl almost 1 yr this july but she already had a bf so distance myself to her but one of my friend told me that looks like she is interested to me but i still don't talk to her but Nov 2009 they broke up for some complicated situations, i heard about that but i felt sad bec. i know it hurts for her, i still distance myself to her until Feb 2009 its valentines month so i decided to gave her a memorable gift bec its valentines day, i'm glad she loves what i gave to her, and then we became friends and then started to court her, i found out that there is guy who court her first before me but between the two of us, she chose me. Then the love grow march 2009 where almost there we're almost lovers, i'm just waiting for the date the sweet word "yes" but i never thought that will gone so fast, we have fights that lead to stop whatever special relationship we had, summer came she works and me just in house, i try to move on by not looking to her fb, not texting her, everything! but sometimes we chat at each other and talks about our past something like closure, everytime we talked that was always our topic, but before the opening of the class she told me to start moving on bec. she already found new bec she thought i already have. Class started she's older than me, first week of class, even thought i see her i always pass by her, i don't look at her i don't talk to her and then one time she confront me about that (hell i'm just moving on its hard i always see her) she cry because of that and start to ignore me also, days past we saw her in mall with her ex-bf looks like back to each other arms again. After that day i decided that i really need to move on, i don't know how it happen that she and her ex reconcile. One of my closest friend found out that the day we saw them she ask what i felt or do i cry over what i saw looks like she still care for me. And then one day she join us for lunch and then i saw her looking at me while eating i can't describe what something in her eyes, i'm scared to look again to her bec. looks like her eyes wants to tell something to me. Yesterday we talk in ym she ask if i have a new crush or something and then i answer none. I DON'T KNOW WHAT WRONG WITH HER, SHE STILL LOVES ME? BUT SHE CAME BACK WIITH HER EX :) so confused
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (9 November 2010):
hi hun i think she is back with her ex for a reason, i dont think she still loves you i think she got back with her ex because she still loved him, i just noticed that you wrote this in july so am sure a lot has changed since then and i hope that you are happy now and in a better place.
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