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writes: me and my exboyfriend lasted 5 years on and off.I cheated on him the first time and he forgave me. 4yrs in a half into our relationship he cheated on me with somebody i knew. I forgave him but 6 m. later he did it again. Its been 8 months and i still love him and cry for him.The worst part is i know he feels as bad as i do because 2 months ago he was drunk and confessed he still loved and that what he did was his biggest mistake ever. Should i forgive him or keep on suffering while away from him?
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (3 March 2006):
 Smeedle does scold you for this martini, but once again your advice is spot on.
You ask for forgivness and yet both of you have done the same to one another, my guess is that you both need a break and that currently you are both going nowhere together.
If in time your feelings for one another are as strong then try again or if you cannot live without him and feel that another go at this is the only choice then this time try and mean what you say and dont cheat.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2006): I'm going to skip reading your entire comment and concentrate on the subject line. Smeedle may scold me for this... 8]Why are you asking other people whether you should forgive him or not? That question is invalid. Ask yourself - should you forgive him? Obviously, you have doubts, but ultimately, how do you choose?
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