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We've been talking and now I want to ask her out. But how?

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Question - (10 June 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 13 June 2006)
A male , *oulislost writes:

I like this girl. We were always in the same school and I never said anything to her, but now she knows me cuz we went on a group field trip to Italy.

When I see her in real life I say hi and we talk, but my problem is I can't start a conversation and her friends always do and I can't work anything in.

How do I ask her out, because I really like her. We started talking on AIM a week ago to now and I've called her once on her cell. Do I ask or wait and how?

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A male reader, David Lewis United Kingdom +, writes (13 June 2006):

David Lewis agony auntWhy do you think she is telling you a guy like her but she is not interested?

A hint perhaps?

Friends may joke about it, but I am sure they have all been turned down too a few times, we all have.

I am sure you will enjoy turning the tables when it happens to them too.

I dont think she will turn you down, my advice would be to take a chance on this girl.

If she is the type to boast to her friends about rejecting you, then you should be glad that she turned you down.

I would not like to be with a person who boasts about hurting peoples feelings.

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A male reader, soulislost +, writes (10 June 2006):

soulislost is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Wow thank u for all the answers everyone but im also afraid that she will tell her friends that i asked her out and that she says no and we're already talkin about a guy who likes her that she doesn't like and i don't want to be the next guy she talks about unless it's in a positive way. Also I'm afraid that my friends will find out and make fun of me and just do that forever i mean me and the girl i like talk on aim a lot and see each other in person a few times do i just wait for a few months and see what happens?

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A female reader, autie emmie +, writes (10 June 2006):

well if i was you i'd ask her but i wouldn't do it over the phone as you see us girls like to be asked face to face but the best thing you can to is get her alone and hwo to do it is phone her and arange to go somewhere together either in or out of school but just say it would be best if only the two of you went and then while you alone together get a nice slow conversation going then just throw in a few subtile hints that you like her and then ask her out but make sure than when your out you make her laugh at least a couple of times and i mean really laugh not a little giggle but DON'T tickle her.

best of luck

auntie emmie x

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A male reader, David Lewis United Kingdom +, writes (10 June 2006):

David Lewis agony auntTry callin her and saying you dialled the wrong number.

Play the 'I am so stupid' line, that will get her laughing and maybe break the ice.

Conversation will soon flow.

Best of luck

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A female reader, leigha101 +, writes (10 June 2006):

Well if you have her cell number, she gave it to you for a reason. Just casually ask her do you want to go to the movies tonight? Don't ask her does she want to date you, If the kiss just happens then it will be a lot more special

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