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writes: I have just started dating this guy and I'm not sure if I like him?We have only been on 2 dates but everyone keeps saying to me you should know by the 2nd date and I don't.I\ve never had a proper relationship before and this is the first time it may turn into one... am I scared?He is a big guy as well... not fat, just got big muscles and for some strange reason I'm worried what people will think... is that me just being shallow?I'm not a skinny girl and would hate someone to think or say that about me.Im I just being stupid?
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reader, robinlovescena +, writes (21 October 2005):
I think that you should go out with that guy one more time. try to make a move. but not a big one. just hold hands or cuddle together. if your heart starts beating really fast, and you just want to stay there forever, then you obviously like him. find out if you see pink bunnies and butterflies. if your just like yea whatever thats cool, then i dont think that you like him that much. tyr it out and get back to me.
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reader, pops +, writes (20 October 2005):
If you are not sure, go out with him some more. Sooner or later, you will know if you can like him, or not. No one can tell you what is in her mind, or your heart. Think about how he treats you, the way you want to be treated, and decide how he measures up. Most guys daying a new girl are on their best behavior, trying to make a good impression. If he doesn't measure up now, its not likely to get any better in the future. IN that case, I would dump him.
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