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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 months. We've been having sex w/o a condom. There was probably about 3 or more time when he didn't pull out. I haven't been feeling the same. My breasts are sore. I am very tired and I get light-headed alot. I don't know if I am pregnant. I don't want to take a home pregnancy test because I am afraid of teh results. No matter what happens. If I am pregnant.... I have no clue how to tell my mom. I am 18 and I can make my own decisions but she already told me that if I do get pregnant she's not going to help me any. I just need to know what I should do...
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2007): Hiya. i think you may be pregnant and if you are its something you shouldnt worry about because it may be a life that you and your boyfriend made together. the best thing for you to do is take a pregnany test or go and see your doctor. if your boyfreind cares for you then hell be there for you. no matter what the result is. as for your mum, parents often say stuff that they dont mean and she may surprise you by being completely different if you were pregnant. at the end of the day you are not alone. there are many numbers you could ring for help or many people people you could see. there are many girls in the same sitution as you. good luck!
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (14 November 2006):
 I normally get those symptoms before my period but u may be pregnant yes have a test soon
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): Well i can kinda relate..I was sexually active without protection and I am now 8 months pregnant..I was 18 when it happend and now I am 19 years old and about to be a mom in 3 weeks..In my situation I was sleeping with a guy for 3 years unprotected and never got pregnant..So my first thought was that I couldnt get pregnant. Well then i started dating a new guy and had unprotected sex with him. He never even ejaculated in me and I am now pregnant. My mom always told me that if I was pregnant she would basically disown me but once it really happens..its different..she may be really angry for the first couple months but shell come around. shes just telling you that she wont be there because she doesnt want you to get pregnant obviously. As far as all those symptoms..it could just be paranoia. There was plenty of times I thought I was pregnant and because I was afraid..I started having all the "Pregnancy Symptoms" but it was just me being scared..When I really was pregnant..I never got any of those symptoms..3 weeks to go and my boobs still dont hurt and im still not tired much..So good luck and if I was you I would take a test because your gonna find out sooner or later and if u are pregnant...you need to start making sure you take care of your body because theres a innocent life you created in there who needs to be healthy!!! GOOD LUCK! :)
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reader, tux +, writes (14 November 2006):
 well.. if you read the signs of pregnancy, you have got a few there.. Having unprotected sex is a big sign... but after that the sore breasts, tiredness and light-headedness is what I've read about this issue. Though all of that could mean other things, like stress.. but well The only true way to know is to take the test and you shouldn't be afraid of getting the truth because I would say it's a pretty good chance you really know that you are but then again.. if it comes back negative, then it just eases your mental pains you have right now thinking that you may be. But you need to bite the bullet and find out for sure and decide how you will deal with it. ANd the thing with your mother.... I wouldn't worry about it because she may change her tune once she learns that you are pregnant but if she doesn't then it really doesn't matter because you knew she wouldn;t.
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