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writes:My boyfriend has recently been really ill and me being me i am really clumsy. we were play fighting when he was tickiling me i would wave my hands about and it hit him and he was hurt due to his illness. He went in a really bad mood, which i understand about, and he then told me i was stupid, to piss off and to get out of the house, wich i did, and i was very upset by the fact he told me to get out. i rung him about 6 hours later, and he was really rude and told me to F*** off and put the phone down on me. He later rung me to ask me if i had calmed down, when it was him who had to calm down, so i got annoyed and then i told him over the phone all the things that annoy me about him, i was supposed to be with him all weekend but due to the fact he asked me to leave, he still does'nt want to see me untill the week after. He later went onto say that i have no friends etc which i do, i would just rather see him rather than see my friends. This has been going on for a year now, is there anything i can do to make him stio, as i do not want to end this. Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (9 November 2008):
He's a jerk. You can't change a jerk.
You can either stay with the jerk and accept he is going to be horrible to you and make you feel like crap all the time.
Or you can grow up, dump his arse, and get a boyfriend who didn't crawl out from under a rock.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, alakazam  +, writes (9 November 2008):
I really do not think you should want him to stay. This seems so unhealthy. I'm sure you love each other but you don't need to be treated that way. If he acts that way about something you did by accident, it can only get worse and it will constantly be like that til one of you can't take it anymore. I know it may be difficult, but reevaluate what you want.
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