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writes: Over a year ago I got friendly with a new girl at work who I discovered already had a long-term boyfriend (1 year). A very close bond had started to grow between us because of her illness which I had experience of. Gradually I fell in love with this girl and I thought she felt the same way. We ended up having a big row and we stopped talking for a few months but after a while we grew close again. I know I'm falling in love with her again but I'm trying not to admit it to myself. I don't know how to cope with this as I'm not sure how exactly she feels and I can't risk telling her. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2005): Mixing "feelings" in the workplace is always a glutton for punishment. You literally can't get away...unless you change your workplace or another career opportunity bounces into your lap. I've seen VERY FEW relationships that start this way last long at all. It's weird....but it's true. The curiousty of the person you work with everyday vs. what you have... ALWAYS seems so appealing. Sometimes it isn't at all what the person is like. It's all the "work place face", I like to call it.
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