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writes:im 15 years old and i have been dating my girlfriend for a few months, i dont want to have sex yet cause we are too young, wat would be the best way i could give her an orgasm without intercorse?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2009): I think the anonomous girl who posted 30 Jan is right who talked about oral sex and masturbating each uder!.. I'm 15 and so is my girlfriend. We have been going out nearly 15 months. We haven't had sex as she thinks at this age it would make her feel like a tramp or a slut and I don't want her to feel like that so we haven't did it..We masturbate each uder and both like it. She hasn't givn me a blowjob and I havent given her oral (yet I did ask her about it but she said no thanks) but there is one thing we know we'll learn from this and that's the fact when we do go to have sex it will be amazing and we'll both be confident doing it.. I just encourage you to talk to your girlfriend about it mate and best of luck.
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reader, Podge  +, writes (31 January 2009):
 I don't know about in america but in england the age of legal sex is 16. I have recently learnt that this law covers oral sex and hand jobs etc. So if your looking at this form a legal point of view then your really limited.
Are you sure this is what she wants?
Good for you for being sensible though it shows that you respect her and have put a lot of thought into this.
if you still have urges etc try a few things and ask her what she would like you to do to her. Don't go expecting an orgasm straight away. girls arnt as sensitive down there as boys, just becaus shee didnt orgasm doesnt mean she didint enjoy it. Communication and trust is the most important thing.
hope this helped you a bit
hannah x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009): i think you are right in what you are saying, sex is all over, you get 13 year old boys having sex nowadays so I will say good for you for sticking with this, and you trying to figure out now how to make a girl orgasm without sex says a lot about you as well, just make sure that you keep it there and don’t cross the line until you are mature and old enough, some might say I am wrong, but the way you are going about this is more mature than other boys and girls your age.And another thing a girl cant have a real orgasm at that age, not really it could feel good or strange but that orgasm is gonabe so much different from the one she will have when she’s 30, it will mature and turn into something so much more amazing just like she will, so its will be a very very good idea to stick to taking things slow, I can remember when I was your age and my then boyfriend stood real close to me while kissing me and he was hard, and because I was so young, it felt amazing, the best kiss I ever had, I felt strange but nice, and I didn’t want it to stop (but believe me it doesn’t work like that anymore) this could also very well go to far, so you need to stay as mature as you are when you in that situation, don’t allow it to get there, if you can keep it there and not take it to the next level pat yourself on the back, and know that you are the best thing ever to happen to this girl, as most girls nowadays are met by young horny boys, who just want to have sex for their own enjoyment, and to often not even thing or know how the girl is experiencing it, and if she is comfortable and that she is actually ready for that, and then that girl grows up looking at sex as a selfish act of a man, or she doesn’t feel confident in herself as a woman, she cant have a proper orgasm coz she doesn’t know what her body likes and will react to coz she skipped that level and went straight to sex. So you need to be mature and be able to trust yourself enough to do this, speak to her as well, tell her how you feel about taking it slow, and tell her you both have a responsibility to take things very very slow and keep it there. Find out what she likes if there is anything she really really likes when you do it to her, and start from that. The more I think about this the harder it gets, LOL, perhaps keep a condom in your wallet, I know I am giving you strange advise now sounds like I am contradicting myself, but I just don’t know how far you as a young boy would be able to control this, and don’t try and do something more without it, you don’t want to ruin your young life with getting her pregnant. Good luck on your journey.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009): yeah! hey! you should be thinking about orgasms within a few years of marriage!(I was 30!)If you want to give her pleasure, then write her a love note, take a picture of each other-frame it- and give it to her, hold her hand(yeah I said that), go to sporting events, say goodnight on the phone-tell her just to hear her voice. No texting it. Just Enjoy your youth together without putting sexual pressure on yourselves to fondle each others premature bodies!Give yourself something to look forward to as an ADULT, please! You're only 15 once, live a little!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009): Well I know you might be young to have sex which you say u don't want to ether and that good thought of u to think so. I know I may not know much but if u guys decided not to have sex then have oral sex or how other people say eat her out.she can do it to u as well a blow job.its better then u guys goin have sex wen ur not ready and that can cause many problem like unwanted pregnancy.at ya young age I know u wouldn't want that a pregnancy. Masterbation is another way not to have sex just don go puttin ur fingers in her vagina rub on he cliqe shell like that.But the best is oral. Have fun be careful Sherry=)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009): If your too young to have sex, your too young to do that either,... ODALAY!!
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