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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I dated this guy, (unofficially) therefore he was unfortunately dating other girls while he was with me, he thought i knew thinking he told me, but he didn't, so I thought the only one he was involved with..Things were going well until we just started to drift apart and he was interested in others and moved on.. I was stuck on him for monthssss!Now, I see him in school. We don't talk at all, no hi's and bye's, nothing! We just look at each other and walk past each other, in lessons we just pretend we cannot see each other..However, he always says things to my friends, and I start to question it..Today I found out my friends were talking about colleges and they mentioned what college I want to go to, he didn't know that college was my first choice, as it was his first choice as well and when he heard, he shouted 'WHATTTTT?! why is she going there?' my friend replied 'Why? Are you still not talking to her?' he said 'I've got nothing to say to her'.. Thats his ONLY excuse.I still like him (however my feelings have died down ALOT!), I wasn't the one who ended it, he did.. when he started becoming more interested in his other dates and forgot about me.A few weeks ago, I spoke to him online for 2hours! I got everything off my chest, I told him I still liked him and what he did really hurt me. We sorted everything out and he said 'I honestly don't hate you, I hope you get that, If anyone asks about me, just tell them you don't want to talk about it and if anyone asks me about you, I'll say the same'.However, when my friend asked what she asked (above^) he didn't end up replying with that, he talks about me like i'm some sort of diseased person and talking to me would kill him..Were over, yet he still talks about me like I'm a diseased person. Whats going on? I dont understand. Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (11 November 2008):
Well he obviously has some kind of issue with you... but it could be anything.
He could still like you, he could hate you, he could feel terribly guilty about you, he could be highly irritated about the fact he has to deal with you and you are not over him.
I think your best course of action is to continue to ignore him. You still have feeling for him which is why you are analysing him and your friends are trying to talk to him. But there must be hundreds of others that you don't speak to in your school so just treat him like one of them.
Good Luck!! xx
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