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writes: My ex and i were considering getting back together. After talking about it for a while we (mainly him)decided that we should wait about a month until my exams are over and he's sorted his life out, and if we both still feel the same then we'll restart our relationship. It's killing me knowing that he likes me but i can't have him (well, we're what i like to call 'romantic sex buddies' and close friends, but it's not enough). I'm worried he'll find someone else he likes better and just expect me to get over it. How can i keep his attention when he's so distracted?
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reader, becs +, writes (24 May 2006):
Best thing to do is to stop giving him too much attention... waste your time on yourself! That way, you are protecting yourself by affirming all the things in your life other than him that makes you happy. He will need to work harder to get your attention and realise your not standing around like a plan B for him. Don't make your feelings clear, just be nice, attractive, fun and mysterious! Keep busy busy busy and let him wonder. I know this sounds like games, but really its not. Its self protection because this way you have more of a chance of him chasing you and if he doesnt who cares!!!!! your busy busy busy!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2006): I think that he is being a little controlling,which really is quite selfish of him. At this moment instead of concentrating on your exams, you are focusing on a possible relationship with him that may not even materialise. Concentrate on your exams, you need a guy who's gonna support you not let you down when the going gets tough.I think maybe he feels threatened because you are trying to better yourself? You don't need to keep his attention, your exams are YOUR future. x
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