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We're in love but incompatible. How do you break up with someone you love dearly?

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Question - (4 May 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 May 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My bf and I love and care for one another very much, but we argue all the time. We have very different expectations for relationships, and we work hard to compromise and understand one another. Even still, we disappointed one another all the time and it's emotionally draining. I think the only thing left to do is to break up. But how? I have had a few boyfriends but he is my first true love. I love him a lot and I can't imagine doing the same things, visiting the same places, and hanging out with our mutual friends without him. He is dear to my heart and we both feel the same way. We have discussed this and we both know we're not meant to be. But neither of us has the strength to push the other away. What do we do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2012):

Honestly just talk 2 him if u both no its not going anywhere tell him u both no it and u guys could still be friends hangout or whatever but if it isn't meant to be that's that oviously u 2 need 2 just b gpfriends so tell him u love him and that it would mean the world 4 u 2 still b friends and I'm sure he will say the same u both can hangout and have fun witheachother

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