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writes:So, a couple of weeks ago I went to a friend of a friend's birthday kick-back. I personally didn't drink; I was sober the whole night. But to cut a long story short, I took care of this guy I met that night because he got super wasted. I know what your thinking, "WTF?! Why would you take care of some random dude!" Well, see for some reason beyond my understanding, this guy wouldn't chill out unless I was the one with him. His friends even said it was out of character for him to act like that. They asked me to just keep him company and get him to "keep a sane mind" since he kept asking for me. And so I took care of his drunken self that night (as in help him to bathroom so he could throw up) as a favor to the birthday boy [who is the guy's best friend]. Oh by the way .. FYI: This guy has a girlfriend (woopty freakin doo da ... -______- I didn't know that very important fact when I first started taking care of him. ) Well ever since that night, we've been texting and talking each other like crazy. He calls me "boo", he's been trying to get to know me, and all that good stuff. Honestly, the guy is amazing. He compliments me on the daily, and I don't mean any of those sleezy comments either. And he seems to take time out of his days to call and hear my voice.I don't feel like I'm a "bootycall", because that's clearly not the case at all. and I'm not trying to steal him from whoever his girl is; The last thing I wanna be is a homewrecker. Will someone just please tell me what this all means! And what I should do! Any input would be great, I'd appreciate it. It's been driving me nuts since I havent actually talked about this to anyone because no one knows me and him have kept in touch since that night... =/
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reader, kIMfresh +, writes (4 September 2010):
kIMfresh is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice everyone, it helped a bunch. I did the right thing and "broke up" with him (don't know how else to put it). I feel good bout it, even if it was kinda hard. Ha, after I did he said "wow you got balls doing that, didn't expect it". Asshole much? I told him I did it because I knew his selfish ass wouldn't. Excuse my language btw! But again, thanks for the feedback! Greatly appreciated :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): My advice? Stay away, this guy sounds like bad news, Everytime he texts you, think of his girlfriend.
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reader, Jay25  +, writes (20 August 2010):
 Its difficult when you are getting attention from a guy you like, obviously all your emotions want to go for it, in the end of the day you are the single one, and for him its probably nice to flirt with someone else, but that might be all he wants an 'ego boost', or if yous did actually hook up he might not leave his gf therefor using you (which I imagine will not make you feel so good in the long run as no girl wants to feel like a dirty secret or second best)
Of course he may actually leave his gf and start a relationship with you, but then how could you ever trust that he wont leave you for someone else oneday?
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reader, faith5 +, writes (20 August 2010):
He has a girlfriend...ask urself how u would feel if ur man was keeping in touch with another chick whom he clearly wants more then a friendship with! If he's willing to cheat on her... He'll cheat on u 2 hun! Run not walk away!
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