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*ookies85
writes:Hi!!I've been dating this guy for almost 6 months, and he never invites me anywhere, we see each other almost every day in college, but when we have free time (like vacations, weekends or anything) he never asks if we could meet or something, he just waits util we start classes again to see each other. We have only seen outside the university 2 times and that because i was the one who said that missed him and wanted to see him. I don't know what to do, i try to say things like "i really want to see that movie", "Id like to eat at that place" to see if he offers take me, but he doesn't.I know he loves me (or at least he is very good faking it), why he doesn't seem to want to spend more time with me??, and I also, should tell him all this?Oh, and this is my first boyfriend so i don't really have anything to compare, im his 1st girlfriend too
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reader, bunnyblueeyes  +, writes (8 August 2011):
 I think that's a great idea. I really do think he just needs a nudge in the right direction! Good luck. X
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reader, cookies85 +, writes (7 August 2011):
cookies85 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much for your help :)bunnyblueeyes, I don´t really want to take him on a date because I´m the only one that is always willing to go out; the only two dates we´ve had were planned by me. I´m going to talk to him and see if he wants to do something together and we could both plan it, do you think thats a good idea??
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reader, bunnyblueeyes +, writes (7 August 2011):
Why don't you invite him out on a date?? He may not think you want to. Men aren't always great with hints! Take the lead!
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (7 August 2011):
 Tell him you want to spend time with him outside of Uni and ask him why it's not happening.
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