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writes: I have been dating this girl for the past few months. She says I am perfect and she doesn't want to lose me, but wants us to step back. It's been weeks and we still havent gone out together. I get shot down everytime I try to arrange something. It's either she already made plans with friends, or is too busy with work. I really like her, but is it time to throw in the towel? I stopped playing games in high school. What's her problem? Scared? Seeing someone else? or just plain inconsiderate?I really don't want to end things for good, I just need to find a way to tell her that I feel like I'm being jerked around. I guess her excuses could be legit, but she's not offering any alternatives to her declines. Thanks for the help.
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reader, Tim +, writes (30 November 2005):
 Guess wot, she might not found you too howsome to be with you she might have other plans and or perhaps someone else to commit and spend time with, she continues to stay away from you, step out of painful relationship dont hurt yourself there plenty fish in the sea to catch dont stick to a shark, sharks' teeth hurt alot more than you can imagine, when she doesn't have time for you means she love, her own universe and sorry not u, you might neva be his dreamguy someone she wanna submit herself and her soul, call her and find out wot is goin on dont be too shy act like an adult and find out wot she is upto or with, i think this kinda relationship you have will not take you anywhere, try to find love in someone who gives you love in return.Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2005): You need to talk to her and tell her what your thinking and feeling over all this .. if you cant come to some sort of compromise then maybe it is time to give up on this and find someone that is prepared to be with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2005): Well, I too am 17, and have been in the same situation as your girlfriend. Sometimes, you just have to learn to accept people the way they are, and the way they do certain things. Maybe she's handling the relationship the only way she knows how. I would'nt look at it as inconsiderate. If you cant beat her and her friends, join her and her and her friends, you might just have fun!!! -ALEY KAT
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