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writes: HI ALL I AM WORKING IN A COMPANY, I AM MARRIED ALSO, I LIKE ONE OF MY LADY COLLEGUE, SHE IS ALSO MARRIED. SHE LIKES ME AND TALK WITH ME ETC. BUT BOTH OF US UNABLE TO TRANFER OUR WISHES OR MIND.. SO HOW CAN I DO IT Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2006): I think you should have a long think about the marriage vows you took with your wife. Or do they no longer mean anything, now you're attracted to someone else?
If you are no longer "satisfied" with your wife the best possible thing you can do is end your marriage so that she can find someone more loving and dedicated to her, and you too can be free and single to do as you wish. Your wife deserves that are the very least.
You should try and treat people with respect in life, ESPECIALLY your wife.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (18 September 2006):
 Geees Louise, man. Grow up. If you are so unhappy in your marriage then do something about it. Don't start muddying the water and acting like a randy goat. Either pee or get off the pot. Fix it or divorce.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2006): Why don't you split up from your partners first and then hook up. Sometimes it is easy to convince oneself that you are unhappy with your partner, because you are looking for an excuse to cheat. If you are serious about this, then why not just leave the spouses first?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe is not satisfied with her husband (all look and like etc.) same me not satisfied with my wife (in her slow motion in all aspects)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2006): Simple answer: You can't.
You're married; she's married. Therefore, it would not be the right thing to do. Especially since you work at the same place. Let it drop, unless you want to risk losing your job AND your marriage.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (16 September 2006):
 Oh why would you want to start an affair at work? You are married and she is married. If you are bored with your marriage then focus on fixing that, or leave your wife. Maybe she is just being nice to you as a friend and it could be embarrassing if you made a move on her only to get rejected. If she doesn't reject you then she is susceptible to having affairs which means she will cheat on you with other men, in the same way as you are willing to cheat on your wife with other women. Whats more, if you have a fling and it doesn't work out then you still have to see each other at work. If the office gossips get to work on you two then you may find your promotional chances dry up quickly - employers rarely encourage office affairs as it is bad for work productivity and you get a reputation as someone lacking in integrity. Think carefully before you screw up your life.
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