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We're both available and I want him to notice me!

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Question - (13 June 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 June 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I have really like a boy at my school for ages! We are both 15 and I really like him. I recently came out of a two month relationship and thankfully both me and my ex managed to move on and stay friends.

The guy i like recently came out of a two year relationship with one of my friends. She has managed to move on quickly and easily, and is now dating again after only a few months, having acted really cut up about it until recently!

This has annoyed her ex as he finds her really false and cannot see hy he dated her. He opened up to me recently: telling me how he found her false and stupid for drinking to much. Also, she has been really unfaithful to hwer current boyfrined: snogging three guys in one night! One was a guy she turned down to go out with her current boyfrind (!), another is a guy she hardly knows and another is her best friend's boyfriend!

The guy i like has also moved on. He asked out a girl at my school bt she said no. This made me sooooooooo happy but also guilty because of what I was feeling. I should want him to be happy!

I really want him to notice me! We are already good friends and flirt pretty much constantly! Somebody said today (thinking we were going out becasue of our behaviour) that we made a really cute couple!

This is really cutting me up! I need to be closer to him! Can you give me any suggestions on how to express how I feel without saying it or to get him to notice me in that way? I need some help!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2006):

Forgive me for coming from the school or stating the obvious, but if you really want him so much I think you should pluck up the courage to ask him out before he's taken and you are kicking yourself for not taking my advice. Good luck, and DONT chicken out.

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A female reader, helena +, writes (13 June 2006):

helena agony aunthey, firstly i think if your friend and the guy u like have both moved on then go for it. the only thing to watch out for is that you dont ruin ur friendship between this guy if he doesnt feel the same way and things are awkward between you both and you end up getting upset.if u go for it, you have to be blunt and tell him how u feel or if u really cant then maybe ask one of your other friends to find out if he feels the same way first. either way, you are still young so take things slowly and dont do anything your not comfortable with. let me know how u get on hun, fingers crossed. helena xx

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A female reader, auntie claire +, writes (13 June 2006):

auntie claire agony auntdear reader honesty is the best policy my dear if you really like this guy then tell him it sounds like he might like you too. also do you not think your just a little too young for all this nonsence after all your only 15 your still at school and have plenty of time to worry about boys you should be concentrating on your school work this must be your last year now clear your mind and crack down with boring stuff when you've left is the time to have fun and at least you will be legal

all the best to you and keep me posted if you like xxx

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