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writes: Ok well I know I did some thing bad, and should have not done it in the first place, but it happened and I cant go back. Well I went out not like a date, with a “friend” (who I know of course likes me). Well to tell you the truth in find my self attracted to him the " friend" lets call him J. Not like only in a physical way, but in a mental way, which I find for more better. Anyways I ended up kissing him, well him me even thou I told myself before I would not, but now I don’t no what to think now. The reason for this that I think I felt more from him (kissing him) than when ever I kissed my boyfriend, which I know is not right, but ya don’t no what to think any more.
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reader, d4u04  +, writes (20 March 2006):
 OK well first of all cheating on your boyfriend is wrong in every case you can put forward but you already know that obviously so I'll skip over it. If you do like this boy more than your boyfriend and 'J' feels the same way about you and you can be sure of that then I would break up with your boyfriend because it's not fair on him being strung along until you and J decide to be together, let him go and have a chance at finding someone better. I know this sounds like a dig at you but it's really not, everyone deserves someone who connects with them like you feel with J, it's just not fair on your boyfriend to be the kind of 3rd wheel in your mind. If J doesn't want a relationship or whatever it is that you want then move on from both of them, him and your boyfriend and start fresh with someone else you like.
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