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writes:I recently went on a date and it went really well and I felt like we really connected. When the date was over he told me that he really fancied me and really liked me etc but wanted to take it slow.... how do I read this? and how should I act? I've been trying my best not to pester him and have only text him once since.... we have spoken briefly online and I haven't bugged him. What should I do next? and should I be worried that our conversation has been sparse to say the least?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009): I'm not sure how much you know about him, and why he'd ask to take it slow, but in my experience the best relationships are the ones where you've got to know each other pretty well before it gets too serious. As this is only the beginning by the sound of it and he's asked to take it slow, regardless of his reasoning, you should just be cool and calm with it. Think positively that in fact, maybe he really does really like you and feels he wants to get to know you better first. Does he seem an intelligent type of guy? If so this could well be the reason.
The last thing you should do is chase him if this is what he's asked, well, that is if you really think he's worth pursuing. He said take it slow, you must have said yes, so the ball is in his court to make the next move. Simple. Not something to worry about, but in actual fact, it could be the start of a nice relationship. In the meantime, don't hold your horses, and carry on with life as it was before you met him. Good luck!
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