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writes:Dear DearcupidI have been a bit down lately, my dad slept with my auntie, and the worst thing is my mom is fine with it, and even encourages it however, it has become a living nightmare as now at supper they all sit down together and I am expected to call my aunt mum as well. To add to the complication, my aunt brings my cousin over and they keep asking us to kiss. Please please help, I'm 16 so I feel I'm too old to ring childline.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2010): I don't think that you are living in a healthy situation. I know it will be difficult to phone for help because you do not want to upset your parents but I think it is your only course of action that will have a positive outcome in the long term.
You could go and see your doctor in total confidence and he will be able to direct you to the right people to help.
Above all do not do anything you don't want to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2010): Woaaaaha! Wow this is complex, do you know if ur dad aand aunt had been flirting for long? / did u know that your parents were pretty open?! More details about the cousiN
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reader, LilPixie +, writes (20 October 2010):
 Don't do anything you don't feel comfortable with.
If your mum is ok with your dad sleeping with her sister, then thats their thing, but expecting you to kiss your cousin - that's a whole different story!! Don't give in to the pressure, if you do, they'll probably end up expecting you to sleep with your cousin.
If you have a connexions centre nearby you could go to them and ask for help there. Calling Childline is certainly an option, even if they can't help you, they'll be able to give you the right contacts of people who can help.
I'm not really sure what else to say, this really is a very strange situation.
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