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writes:I'll of been going out with my boyfriend next week for a year, and were both fifteen even though he's almost sixteen, i've still got another 10months to wait. i see him alot and we love each other very much; we know we probably wo't last forever but for the time being were all each other could ask for. I see him around 4-5times a week usually and he comes up to mine, my parents let us in our bedroom alone which i'm really greatful. Yes we have had sex for a few months in fact but its something we didn't rush and i'l never regret so i'd rather do without the lecture (:, we know what were doing.Anyways, almost everytime we're layed next to each other all we want to do is fall asleep and just be with each other all night, we both have pretty strict parents and i know they would never let us as they would only get the wrong idea. Mine trust us in the house alone and i've never proposed the idea but i'm scared if i do all they will do is get the wrong idea and i don't want that.I know it's not a major issue but anyway i could maybe go around the idea would be useful?thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (23 March 2009):
 Option A: Good side: Explain to your parents that you want to spend one night together, you won't be having sex (Well thats what they will think I'm assuming :S) and that you just want to experience one night to wake up in each others arms
Option B: Rebel: Tell your mum or dad or whoever that your going to a friends house and get the boyfriends mum to cover if thats appropriate (this is what I do, luckily I haven't been caught out but its a bit risky)
I'd go for the first option to keep their trust in you, but its up to you, just a couple of options to consider :)
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (23 March 2009):
 Have you asked your parent is you two could have a camp out in the middle of the living room?
I know it sounds kind of wierd, but if your family had a movie night where you all were hanging out watching tons of movies and staying up late, they might be more willing to let you two just stay in the living room where they can come check on you whenever they want to.
I understand the frustration at your age. I wasn't even allowed to have my BF over in my room with the door open. We snuck around all over the place to be together.
The best thing is to be honest with your parents about why you want this. If they see you aren't hiding anything from them, they will be much more open o hearing your case. They may still say no, but at least you'll get a chance to ask.
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