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writes:What would be some fun things for me and my girlfriend to do, without having sex, but things to do with some of that sort. Like exploring each other in an intimate way. We are both up for it but we dont have any ideas. Any one out there have any suggestions ??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): Oh yeah, I forgot at age 13 to 15 you have life all figured out. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhy does everyone that see the stupid age bracket ssaying 13-15 probably almost always assume that were still litte kids in middle school? We are well aware of the things that can happen as a result of our actions and there are certain things we wouldnt do. If thats all you were going to say rythmandblues2 then you were wasting your time. Its not what i asked for. In the end it doesnt matter much what you say, if someone already has their mind made up their going to do whatever it is regardless of what you or other people like you have said. This doesnt mean that theyre going to go out and do the stupidest things. If theyre asking they probably already know the risks involved and what could happen. The last thing we need is for everyone to still treat us as little kids and telling us what we can and cant do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): You both are too young to be exploring anything except the mall or the neighborhood.
Why do kids your age want to be in a relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend, it seems like such a waste of time and energy. Why not instead cultivate friendships with a lot of different girls and guys and have fun together as a group of friends.
Exploring each other's bodies results in sex. Sex that you are not emotionally ready for. Sex that could ruin your young life with an unwanted pregnancy. Kids having kids is not a good thing.
Go take a cold shower or learn how to take care of your owne sexual frustrations and your own physical needs, it is natural, it keeps you from making mistakes by being intimately involved with another KID.
Talk to your parents about this sort of thing....it is their responsibility to guide you in the development of your morals and sexual education. They care about you and know you the best and they have set their standards for you to follow. Don't go about trying to bust that just for the sake of being your own person, you will regret it.
Sorry, I didn't give you some "suggestions" for exploration with your friend. Instead, explore your own body and leave hers alone, it belongs to her for the next few years and you need to respect the fact that she is too young to be intimate with anyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): usual stuff .. make out , kiss , massage each other , oral sex or use ur hands .. it will pretty much come by itself once u get started and you're feeling comfy with each other
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